Monday Memo| Detail No.174| October 06, 2025

October arrives with calm honesty. It reminds us that becoming isn’t about chasing more, it’s about being rooted in who you are, even when the world measures worth in numbers, titles, and noise. Becoming is not a competition. It’s a personal unfolding. You don’t need to be louder, richer, or more visible to matter. You just need to keep showing up with truth.

The fear of not being enough creeps in easily someone always seems to have more, know more, do more. But comparison will always blur your vision. The moment you start measuring your life against someone else’s, you stop seeing the quiet beauty of your own. Your pace, your path, your progress, they’re not meant to look like anyone else’s.

Becoming is not about proving; it’s about being present. It’s about doing the work, staying consistent, and trusting that growth built from intention lasts longer than success built from pressure. The game of numbers will exhaust you if you let it. Do the work that fills you, not just the work that gets noticed.

Hard work matters, yes, but so does peace. You can strive without losing your centre. You can grow without rushing. You can want more without resenting where you are. The real becoming happens when you stop trying to earn your worth and start living from it.

So this month, stop shrinking when others shine. Don’t dim your fire out of fear that it burns differently. You are not behind. You are not less. You are becoming steadily, beautifully, and in your own time.

Let October remind you: enough isn’t a finish line; it’s a truth you live from. Keep building, keep learning, keep believing but above all, stay rooted in who you are. That’s where becoming begins.